Forgive and Liberate your Soul

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Strongest is not the one who fights back and takes revenge, strongest is the ones who holds back, forgives and moves on. When a person gets hurts, its after effects are surrounded by two schools of thoughts, one is to take the revenge and other is to forgive. Taking back what belongs to you and punishing those who disregard your feelings is your right, this is the ultimate principle of humanity which is known as justice. But more than justice human soul needs peace, the inner satisfaction which neither comes from the wealth nor from justice, it comes through forgiveness.

 

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Forgiving is very important not for the sake of others but for yourself. Forgiving and letting go come side by side. In most of the cases the loss is not repairable, there is nothing that can be done to fix the situation, what is done is done, there is no going back in the past & changing so the only wise thing to do is let go. Letting go is not a bad thing. God made human heart as such that it can deal with absolutely anything, if your heart is hurt then it asks to be healed and the best way of healing is letting go.

Why did it happened? , this is the question whose answer can never be found; life would become easier if people would understand this one simple fact. The only possible answer to this question is that because God wanted it to happen.

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First of all it is necessary to understand the actual meaning of forgiveness, it is not something you can feel or touch, it is something imaginary yet it is powerful enough to change a person’s life. Forgiving means liberating your heart from all kind of remorse, anger, desire of punishing, take revenge and not holding a grudge for the rest of your life. Doing this all with your full heart, not for the sake of others. A very important point to consider here is that forgiving in no way means agreeing to something, making a deal or compromising etc. It is about purifying your heart from all kind of regrets & ill thoughts about a person.

Forgiving is very important not for the sake of others but for yourself. Forgiving and letting go comes side by side. In most of the cases the loss is not repairable, there is nothing that can be done to fix the situation, what is done is done, there is no going back in the past & changing so the only wise thing to do is let go. Letting go is not a bad thing. God made human heart as such that it can deal with absolutely anything, if your heart is hurt then it asks to be healed and the best way of healing is letting go.

Why did it happened? , this is the question whose answer can never be found; life would become easier if people would understand this one simple fact. The only possible answer to this question is that because God wanted it to happen.

Another question which ceases the human heart from healing is why me? God punishes only those whom He loves; He tests them in different ways by making them go through hardships and obstacles. Bad things happened to you because your heart is close to God, it is a sign that you are special than the rest of the humans. So if ever in your life something unpleasant happens then don’t complain instead smile and thank God for it.

Mostly by forgiveness it is assumed that it means forgiving others but in reality it has two modes. The first one of course is forgiving other and the second one is forgiving yourself.

If a person is hurt (either physically or morally) or is deprived of what he deserves then it obvious that he would want revenge but even after getting his revenge he never feels the fulfilment. No matter what he does where he goes he will never get the contentment until or unless he lets go and forgives.

The other type is forgiving yourself for your own mistakes. Mistakes are to be learned from, if something went wrong then instead of regretting over it learn your lesson from it. Make sure that you never do the same mistake again. Regret is a slow poison which kills the person from the inside, so there is no point in doing the regret because regret is void, it has no benefits. When God has given you the right of forgiving others then you also have the authority of forgiving yourself.

The hatred that dwells inside the heart either for yourself or for someone else can have a very negative effect on your own life; the hatred will eventually make you hate yourself. Hatred is a very strong feeling; its negative energy can make you lose control over many important spheres of your life, it is very essential to keep your heart clean from any kind of hatred. Also not letting go of something can cause you a lot of health troubles and can make you ill spiritually and mentally.

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Forgiving is never easy, actually it is among the hardest thing to do in life, at times it takes year for a person to get over the trauma & then forgive. It takes a lot of courage, will power and selflessness to forgive but once you do it you would feel that it was the easiest thing you have ever done in your life, that you should have done it long ago. You would feel a sense of freedom and your life will no longer remain haunted by the ghosts of the past or clouded by some kind of remorse and guilt.

A lot of people spend a lot of money visiting physiatrists but they never find a permanent solution. The solution to most of their problems lie in a small act of forgiving. More than half the problems can be solved only if people start being honest to themselves.

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