Live life – not kill your life after Break-up
One day , I was standing on the corridor of my class. I’m a kind of person who is giving more value for my friendships. I had a lot and lots friends. But from that some persons who were really very close to me . That’s why I used to share all my happiness and sorrows to them . All the more I believe them than me . Till now all my friends are with me . suddenly one day one of my friend came and told me about his love . I was really stucked with myself . I do not know what I have to tell or what should I reply for his love. But for the same time , I fell in love with him . it was not a spot love . I was loving him for the past one year and he too..The only thing what I told him on the spot was that I need more time to think . At last after two days I told him about my love . I do not know what happened to me . He was my best friend before that . I loved his friendship , caring and his attitude towards others and I loved him too.. so we got into a relationship. We both were loving each other sincerely. I loved him more than my other best friends . I was feeling little lazy for doing my works.. because all the time I was dreaming about him only .. I used to talk with him daily , even that too in the day and night. now I would realize it that was my first fault which I have ever done in my life .( If a girl who loves her boy friend sincerely means she should not supposed to tell like this). My friends were always with me for all my ups and downs. I started listening to romantic songs , started dreaming all the time . I was really enjoying all the time . I thought that love is the only thing which can give happiness in our life and with out love we cannot enjoy our life .
“ Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness” This was my concept about my love in my life. I thought he is my world. He is my all in all. But fortunately or unfortunately after four years of our relationships , I got break up with him , and that too was not my fault .as I mentioned above “If a girl who loves her boy friend sincerely means she should not supposed to tell like this” but here I did the same thing, because that much he hurts me. I took four years for understanding him . For him , love is like entertainment, and he was forming an affair from one persons to another .once he loved me … !! yeah I know he loved me but he loves somebody else. At that time , I was alone … I don’t like to talk to anyone , I don’t like others , even I don’t like myself . I lost my life. I lost everything in my life . I started thinking off to committing suicide . because he was everything to me . I was really depended on him . after, I took few months for understanding what is life and what is love . whenever I was alone , all my friends came near to me again and letting me to start a new life without him . they gave full support for me to start up a new life . That time I realized the truth that if any one comes into our life ,don’t leave our best ones for that particular person . And now I feel guilty about myself , because I started avoiding them when I was in a relationship . now I started a new life … I started enjoying my life with ma best ones . I started studying … all the more I started a new career which I want to be …
“Cry . Forgive . Learn . Move on . let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness” – Steve maraboli
Your breakup is a part of your life ; your past is not your destiny. Do not bury yourself. Do not let him be ‘the reason for the teardrops on your guitar anymore.’ You’ve got a life and you deserve to live. Get over the breakup, take time but don’t pretend you’ve gotten over it. Get your spirits high.cry them out and start a fresh life .And lets enjoy your life to the fullest.
“You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don’t know it, all of that doesn’t even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It’s not like you have forever, so don’t waste any of your seconds, don’t throw even one of your moments away.”
― C. JoyBell. C
don’t waste your time for any one who do not love us .. because time runs like the hell… and we also have to run with our life . because time will not wait for us . we should run with time ..