Every day at some point of time, in your heart you might be asking whether you really know what matters in life. It might be about wealth or a crush, the house or the car and sometimes there you might find no reason as to what actually makes your life even matter. They say it is all about you but it is so complicated that you feel like you stand nowhere. Drastically, many people around specially teens are stated to have been unknown to what they really feel and it turns out for them as being an immensely difficult situation to deal with. So much of competition around the world and everyone has to perform their best so as to be in the line of people who could give significant contribution to their companies and to be called an employed person amongst their peers that sometimes you might be displeased with the course of life and how it has turned up in time.
The wisdom to know what really makes our life matter lies inside of us. The only problem is that we do not understand it and some quotes by our loved ones or friends truly make us know the meaning of life. They are those hints that help us to know what exactly it is that makes our life worth living out for.
Make every moment of your life matter. Don’t hesitate to live every moment of your own and try to be the best in whatever you want to do. It does not mean that you have to be perfect. It just means that you have to do the best you can. Do it the way you want to and don’t do the thing because you are pressurized to do it. It won’t even matter and in your heart, you might never be happy because of it.
We are stuck together at times feeling lost in the past happenings and even thinking what might happen to us in the future. It is always about the worries and the regrets but there is nothing called living the present. The thing is that it is this moment that would become a past in the future and was future in the past. You get lost while tracking the time and you lose it. That is why you need to take the decision of living it in the present time so as to make your life matter.
It is all about being happy at the present time. It is not your goal but it is what it means to live life. Enjoy every minute of it. Do not think that you can be happy from outside and that is why you smile incorrigibly. Happiness comes from the heart and spreads through the body aura. It enhances the beauty of a person and is what defines what you can attain. It is a mental state that you chose to have and it somehow helps you to understand beyond limitations what it means to live life to the fullest.
Oscar Wilde stated- ‘Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken’. It is only you who could find and discover why you are and what you really stand up for and what you want in your life. No one can help you in it and when you know it then only you would be able to know the true meaning of being free. Fight for the things you love and understand what it means to you. Find your own trail and blaze that path with your virtues and manners. This would make you comfortable and help you know what you stand for and want to do in life.
There is a deeply interesting quote by Lao Tzu, the Chinese philosopher that- ‘Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage’. This is a beautiful thought indeed and makes your life matter. Know your true worth first and then truly love someone else. Treat yourself to nice things and try helping people up. It would make you feel satisfied and in your way you might make a difference to the world around.
Find your goal…your purpose in life. Purpose stands for your career and it is what mainly makes you see life as. It would give meaning to your life and infuse a confidence inside of you. It gives you an alternative and gives a push to your dreams and thus, in an essential way is the means of shining brightly.
Gain as much experience you can and this is what truly does matter. Experiencing wonderful situations would help you to light up and it would help in counting up things for yourself. It is a way through which you could count your life as one of the means of making your life seem both wonderful and spectacular. Have experiences and learn from each one of it.
Know about your values and thoughts and beliefs in life. Your thoughts become your words and ultimately it turns into action. You need to understand this fact and work to think positive and work towards your goals in the best possible way. Values are everything and they are the means to understand what the true meaning of life is for you.
With these virtues at hand, you might easily be able to make your life matter. You would surely start to love your life and each moment of it as if it was a new day altogether.