Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened. Everything in life happens for a reason, the reason might be good or bad! Everyone comes in your life for a reason it might either be a blessing or a lesson. Many things in our life happen for a temporary period, some people come in our lives for just a temporary time and then leave without any reason or maybe for a reason. All these things either shape our lives for a better future or maybe just leave us wondering for a while that why did they even happen? But the life doesn’t stop there.
Life is a journey to just move of, remember some things and forget the others, cherish some moments and ignore the rest! Life is all about going on and letting go. Many incidents in our lives are such which leave us shattered and make us wonder that why did we even let such a kind of thing happen to us, there was joy and happiness but that was temporary, and we crib and cry over it. Some people come in our lives and go, those people whom we loved more than anything, go for some reason or the other, they just leave.
Some for reasons that we cannot do anything about, some for reasons we can do something about, but they leave, some we leave for no reason and the others we leave for a reason. There are only a few people who stay with us for a lifetime. And probably they are the ones who actually mean something in our lives. But at times its good. It gives you more time to spend with your own self and to know yourself better. It is good for a person to spend time alone. It gives them an opportunity to discover who they are and to figure out why they are left alone. People who leave us maybe because they do not exist in this world any longer, we miss them and blame the God and start hating him, but everything has to happen and will happen if not today then tomorrow or maybe some other day, people tend to leave us, people break up, leave their families and tend to commit suicide and leave us all alone, people leave for a reason. “One should not be unhappy about anything that did happen be just smile and feel good about thinking that it happened. And if the person left, it was for a reason! The only thing more unthinkable than leaving was staying; the only thing more impossible than staying was leaving. I didn’t want to destroy anything or anybody. I just wanted to slip quietly out the back door, without causing any fuss or consequences, and then not stop running until I reached Greenland.” – Elizabeth Gilbert. Everybody has to leave, everybody has to leave their home and come back so they can love it again for all new reasons. And the danger is that in this move toward new horizons and far directions, that I may lose what I have now, and not find anything except loneliness. We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere, in our memories, our minds and our thoughts! And the danger is that in this move toward new horizons and far directions, that you may lose what you have now, and not find anything except loneliness. But then again, a little loneliness is good for your life.
“Because maybe, in a way, we didn’t leave it behind nearly as much as we might once have thought. Because somewhere underneath, a part of us stayed like that: fearful of the world around us, and no matter how much we despised ourselves for it–unable quite to let each other go.” -kazuo ishiguro. You get used to someone and that is why you have this fear of using them. But you will get used to living without them as well. There are times when the actual experience of leaving something makes you wish desperately that you could stay, and then there are times when the leaving reminds you a hundred times over why exactly you had to leave in the first place. Of course. That’s what people do in a disordered world, a world of freedom and choice: they leave when they want. They disappear, they come back, they leave again. And you are left to pick up the pieces on your own. Learning to live your life without anybody around is also very important.”Leaving would imply suitcases and empty drawers, and late birthday cards with ten-dollar bills stuffed inside.”
There are always two sides to a coin, if a person leaves, there is a positive aspect to it as well, only thing is to flip the coin in such a manner that the positive side of it comes up and you live with the positivity rather than cribbing when a person will leave you or you leave a person. It doesn’t matter how many times you leave, it will always hurt to come back and remember what you once had and who you once were. Then it will hurt just as much to leave again, and so it goes over and over again. Once you’ve started to leave, you will run your whole life. You can always start over again, with new a life having old memories which are cherished.