“Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows. It empties today of its strength.” We all tend to have ups and downs in our lives. We all go through good times and those which are not so good. All of fail at some point of time in life and cry and crib about it. One thing which is common in all these phases of life is that instead of dealing the situation with courage and trying to overcome it we worry. Worry is a cycle of inefficient thoughts, whirling around a centre of fear. But where will this worrying get us? Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrows, but only sap today of its joy.
A very good line said by Mahatma Gandhi- “ There is nothing that wastes the body like worry, and one who has faith in God should be ashamed to worry about anything whatsoever”.
We have been gifted with such a unique mind which functions as per the requirement. It is given to us to imagine things and bring about a positive change. It facilitates the hard work and helps in giving fruitful results when used selflessly and intelligently. Then why do we pressurise is and worry about small little things in life and waste our power of imagination?
Worrying is like fermenting our brains. All problems in this world and they have a solution. We can do something or the other for every small issues of life. And for the things for which we cannot do anything about why to even worry! It makes no sense to worry about things you don’t have a control over because there is nothing you can do about them. And why worry about things that you do control? You can fix these problems in sometime. The worrying process makes you feel sad and gives you tension for no reason. The activity of worrying keeps you immobilized.
People tend to worry about both minor and major issues in life. They also worry about the positive as well as the negative aspects of life. For instance, If you have done your interview greatly you worry about getting selected. You feel what will happen if you do not get selected for a respective post. But how is worrying here going to help you anyway? For those who don’t dwell well with their interview, they choose to worry. They worry about where would they work and get a job as there is no ray of hope available to them here. But can worrying get you a good job? Instead if you do something about it rather than worrying it might definitely help you. You can work hard for the next few interviews which you’re going to be facing. And those who have done well should enjoy their lives till they get the result. Even if they fail, they can try again. After all, this ain’t the end of their lives. Life will throw up many more opportunity and instead of worrying they should think about how will they going to grab the upcoming opportunities. “Do not worry when you are not recognized, but strive to be worthy of recognition.”- Abraham Lincoln.
Worrying will do no good to use. It is just an utter wastage of your precious time. Time- a factor which will never come back when gone. When it is gone there is only reasons why you should regret things what you should have done instead of worrying. Worry is just the interest paid by those who borrow troubles. People most likely tend to worry about failures in life. But you cannot expect happiness without pain in your life. After all, the rainbow only appears after a rain. Every single persons’ life will have two phases. In one of the phases he will be joyous and the other will break him down. What is important here is to face those phases. Break a leg and overcome failure. That is the only thing one can do in such situations. Worrying would certainly not get him anywhere. And also, if you are doing your best, you do not have any time to worry about failure.
Our life is too short to worry about anything. You had better enjoy it because the next day promises nothing. Life is meant to fail and learn from failure. Worrying about failure is of no point. “ When suffering knocks at your door and you say there is no seat for him, he tells you not to worry because he has brought you his own stool”. So, one should stop the worries about future and live the present as happily as he can. “The most important is God’s blessings, and if you believe in God and believe in yourself, you do not have to worry about anything.”- Mohamed Al-Fayed. Put all your trust in God and go ahead and then worry will get you no place. To be a champion you need to handle your worries. All you need is determination and a lot of hard work. Be courageous enough to face your fears and handle all the difficulties of life. Because ups and downs just come and go, there is only one life and you need to live it fearlessly without worrying much about anything. Instead find solutions and avoid worrying, because worrying is just a waste of soulful thinking and unnameable and infinite imagination. Worry is just a spiritual short sight, and its cure is intelligence and faith in your own self. So stop worrying and be confident, Nothing in this world can ever stop you then.